Move on, my friend...

A dear friend has a relationship problem and I am concerned.

A relationship is a commitment between 2 people. If it has become a one way relationship, then it may not be worth maintaining it. I always believe that the more you love someone, the more you need to learn to let go. If you truly loves a person, you would want that person to be happy. If that person is not happy, where's the love?

If you want to possess that person, is there love anymore? Yes, it may be sad to let go of someone you love. But, being together is not bringing happiness to both, why force it?

You may have put in a lot of sacrifices in the relationship. If that person cannot appreciates the effort, is there a point to continue? Why continue in a relationship where both has to put up with each other and there's no happiness?

Grow up and move on! If that person cannot appreciate the relationship and the sacrifices you made, that person is not worthy of your love (no matter how much you love that person). Cherish the love in your heart and move on. I am sure there will be someone out there who will appreciate the commitment you put into a relationship.

Of course, the decision is yours to make. You know what is right. Please move on! It's better for you, for that person and also for people (like me!) who are concerned for you!

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